Daughter’s marriage & question of menstruation
Surah ‘Al-Baqarah (The Cow) – Chapter – 2)
Stage – 1, Verses – 221c & 222a of 286, Section – 27 & 28 of
40 (Part - 2)
BisMIllaahir-Rahmaanir-Rahiim
In the name of God, the Beneficent, the Merciful
221c. And give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters till they believe. And lo! A believing
slave is better than an idolater though he please you. These invite unto the
Fire, and Allah inviteth unto the Garden, and unto forgiveness by His Grace,
and expoundeth thus His Revelations to mankind that haply they may
remember.
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221c. Wa laa tunkihul-mushrikiina hattaa
yu’-minuu. Wa la-‘abdum-mu’-minun-
khayrum-mim-mushrikinw-wa law ‘a’-jabakum. Ulaaa-‘ika
yad-‘uuna ‘ilan-Naar. WAllaahu yad-‘uuu
‘ilal-Jannati wal-mag-firati bi-‘izniH. Wa
yu-bayyinu ‘aayaatiHii lin-naasi la-‘allahum
yatazakkaruun.
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Lesson
Laa tunkihu – don’t marry (your
daughters with idolaters), here the Muslim men are being addressed that they
should not give their daughters in marriage to idolaters. This command is not
being delivered direct to the women that ‘do not wed idolaters’. The reason is
clear that marriage of the girl/woman is arranged always by means of her father
or patron/guardian.
‘ilan-Naar – unto the Fire,
that is to say; they call towards the faiths and acts, end of which is the Hell.
‘ilal-Jannati wal-mag-firati - unto
the Garden, and unto forgiveness, namely; God Almighty prevails towards Belief
and Islam, and Admonishes to adopt the way of life which leads to the Paradise
and forgiveness.
bi-‘izniH - by His Grace, ‘izn means
power, intention and sanction.
It was commanded to
the Muslims in the first part of the verse, “Wed not idolatresses till they
believe” though you like them very much. Now, it is being ordered in this part,
“Give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters till they believe”. Scholars
have explained that if the husband has rejected Islam then his wife will not
remain any more as his life partner. Their marriage will be dismissed
automatically immediately, which was till now lawful. And this woman can wed
any Muslim after completion her Iddat. It has been explained also that
if the husband and wife (both) were already Infidel and now the wife has become
Believer then there is no form of remaining wedlock except that the husband
embraces Islam too.
Now it has been
cleared again that though you like the idolater much, but in every condition; a
Muslim slave is better than a non Muslim, because which results of
marriage with idolater were disclosed, those are very frightful. The
idolaters will preach much worse and that will become cause of throwing you in
to the Fire of Hell.
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222a. They question thee (O Muhammad) concerning
menstruation. Say: It is an illness, so let women alone at such
times
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222a. Wa yas-‘aluunaka ‘anil- mahiiz.
Qul huwa ‘azaa, fa’-tazilun-nisaaa-‘a fil-mahiiz.
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Lesson
Mahiiz – (menstruation), mahiiz is the
blood which comes to the women every month. It is called monthly course and
menses also. It is an illness. Other nations of the world have determined it
too as foul blood as well as medical specialists claim that it is detective
blood. According to color, smell and particles, this blood is different from
the normal blood also. It has extremely fury.
fa’-tazilu- (so let women
alone), this word has been derived from ‘A’-tazaal which means
here “remain away from that woman for the process of copulation with her”.
Reason for
revelation of this verse is that during the times of Last Messenger of God
Almighty (grace, glory, blessings and peace be upon Him) the worshippers of the
fire and the Jews used to think impure to eat and drink foods made by the women
during the period of menses at one side. Some people didn’t think it legal to
keep the women in their houses during this period. Hindus still don’t eat
things made by them during menstruation. On the other side, the Christians
didn’t avoid copulation during these days.
The Companions (God
Almighty may be agreed upon them) asked from the Prophet (grace, glory,
blessings and peace be upon Him) about this matter. Prophet (grace, glory,
blessings and peace be upon Him) called it as worse inflation and deflation,
and said: neither too much hatred is needed that the women should not be let to
remain in their houses and think as impure meal; made by their hands, nor there
should be as much negligence that one does not avoid from intercourse, but the straightway
is that one should avoid from the process of intercourse in this condition, and
in addition; eating, drinking and living together is lawful.
Holy Qur’an is a perfect Code for life. It
gives advise and commands in the entire fields of life which belong to human
being and naturally in it, the mankind not only eats, drinks and sleeps with
one another (husband and wife) but their sexual appetite, desire of having
children and desire to make special connections are also produced. So, Holy Qur’an gives proper orders for them.
Other nations
selected exaggerated way. Holy Qur’an
explained that during this period just sexual contact is prohibited. Other
things like sitting and standing, eating and drinking etc. with the wife do not
have any connection with it. These all acts are lawful.
‘Azaa – (illness) Holy Qur’an called the menstruation as
impurity. Its other meanings are pain and trouble. It is possible that
because of that pain and trouble, the intercourse is forbidden in these days.
Today medically it is proved that in these days connection can be reason of different
diseases. Doctors prevent from it also.
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