Dealing with Other People
SAYINGS OF THE MESSENGER
(SallAllaahu
‘Alayhi wa ‘Aalihii Wasallam)
222. Sayyidina ‘Abdullah bin Mas’ood (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
It is sinful to revile a Muslim; and to fight with him is to disbelieve. (Bukhari, Muslim, Mishkat)
223. Sayyidina Abu Hurayrah (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
It does not behove a true Muslim that he go on cursing other people. (Muslim, Mishkat)
224. Sayyidina Abu Hurayrah
(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Anyone says “people have perished” (considering himself pious and meaning to
say that other people are involved in bad deeds) then he is the one to whom the
statement applies more than to those people. (Muslim, Mishkat)
225. Sayyidina Abu Hurayrah
(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
The worst of men, on the Day of Resurrection will be the two-faced man who goes
to some people with one face and to others with another face. (Bukhari, Muslim, Mishkat)
226. Sayyidina Huzayfah (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
A tale bearer will not enter Paradise. (Muslim, Mishkat)
227. Sayyidina Anas (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
He who has given up disputing while he was on the wrong will have a palace
built for him on the edge of Paradise and he who gives up disputing while he
was truthful will have palace built for him in the centre of Paradise. As for
him who is well mannered he will have it built for him in the loftiest part of
Paradise. (Tirmizi, Mishkat)
228. Sayyidina Bahz bin Hakim
(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Pity him who tells lies to make people laugh. Pity him! Pity him! (Ahmad, Mishkat)
229. Sayyidina Mu’aaz (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
If anyone accuses his (Muslim) brother of a sin (for which he has repented)
then he will not die until he has committed that sin himself. (Tirmizi, Mishkat)
230. Sayyidah ‘Aishah (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ha)
I do not like that I should mimic anyone (or, find fault of anyone) even if I
were to get something for that. (Tirmizi,
Mishkat)
231. Sayyidina ‘Iyaad bin Himaar
(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Allah has revealed to me that I should be humble so that no one boasts over
another and no one oppresses anyone else. (Muslim, Mishkat)
232. Sayyidina Abu Hurayrah (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Those people who boast about their dead (disbelieving) ancestors must stop
doing that because they have become fuel for Hell. Such people surely are more
lowered in the sight of Allah than the black insect which rubs its nose in
filth. Surely, Allah has removed the pride of the days of ignorance when people
took pride in their ancestors. People are of only two kinds, now; the
God-fearing, devoted Believers, or the evil-minded sinners. All mankind are
children of Aadam and Aadam was created from dust. (Tirmizi, Abu Dawood, Mishkat)
233. Sayyidina ‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Ar-Rahman is Merciful to those who
show mercy. Have mercy on the people of earth, the Owner of Heaven will have
mercy on you. (Tirmizi, Abu Dawood, Jama’
al-Fawaa’id)
234. Sayyidina Abu Hurayrah (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
Once, someone was very thirsty while he was going on his way. After some
distance of walking, he found a well. He got down into it and drank water from
it. Then, he saw a dog paining from thirst trying to quench it with dust. He
thought to himself that the dog was as thirsty as he had been a short while
ago. so he got down into the well again and, not having a vessel to fill it
with water, he filled his sock with it and holding the sock in his mouth he
climbed out of the well he watered the dog on coming out. Allah liked his deed
very much and as a result, for-gave him. (Bukhari,
Muslim, Jama’ al-Fawaa’id)
235. Sayyidina Miqdaam bin Ma’dikarib
(Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
When
someone loves his brother, he should let him know that he loves him. ((Tirmizi, Abu Dawood, Jama’al-Fawaa’id)
236. Sayyidina Abu Hurayrah (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ho)
If you
love someone, be moderate in showing your love to him for he might become the
cause of your anger, someday. And if you dislike and hate someone, be moderate
in your dislike for him for, someday, he might become your beloved. (Tirmizi, Jama’ al-Fawaa’id)
237. Sayyidah ‘Aishah (Radi-ALLAHO-An-ha)
He, among
the Muslims has a perfect faith who is very well-mannered and behaves with his
family members very mildly and kindly. (Tirmizi,
Jama’ al-Fawaa’id)
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